My oldest grandson will be a sophomore in the fall.

Him along with his brothers love sports, however, basketball is king in their household. He recently made the national/traveling team at the competitive club he belongs to. Which means we will miss watching several games throughout the summer. One parent will usually accompany him to the out of state games.

In a crazy dream that I have, I would be able to fly with and attend games with my daughter and grandson. How wonderful that scenario would be!

When I come back down to reality I realize how impossible it would be.

Taking care of my needs is a full time job and flying anywhere can be extremely difficult, stressful and exhausting.

So I accept that I will attend as many games nearby as possible and know how much he appreciates the fact that I make the effort.

My life is full of choices that challenge my needs and wants every day. A tough realization.